eHarmony

So, I broke down and signed up and created an account on eHarmony. I figured I'm ready to start meeting people and have coffee, talk, etc, etc. This Saturday I was missing having someone to simply go to a movie with or hang out. I was trying to think of who I could call..... no one. (sigh) Rather than feel sorry for myself I thought I'd do something about it. Put myself out there and see what happens!

Oh man was I wrong. They need to put a disclaimer on the site when you sign up and pay your money that your first contact with someone is going to be rejections. Within less than 24 hours I get three rejections! I didn't even get a chance to say "hello" and I get the door slammed in my face! Nice way to start out. In all fairness, I would prefer to have someone say they are not interested from the beginning and save a lot of time and effort. There is nothing worse in the character of a person who leads someone on to think there might be potential for a relationship knowing full well that they have no intention at all of doing anything. I think it is quite awful for a person knowing that to take advantage and use that person for everything they can get. A person like that, in my opinion, is a very ugly person. So I'm grateful that the woman that have started to reject me, without meeting me, are doing so from the beginning.

Should I continue to weather the rejections? How long should I hang in there?

Kel