Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Changes

I've decided to continue to blog. However, my blog content is going to start to change be less interesting for some of you. My life is different today than it was 5, 3, or 2 years ago. Grief has become less of an issue in life today than it was a year or 2 years ago. Even though grief is less of an issue I still miss blogging my thoughts, relationships with friends and what I'm doing.

I'm going to make some changes to the blog layout. Change the main header and some of the description content. I will start to make the transition from a survivor of grief to a normal everyday guy who is in a 'on again - off again - on again' relationship, working, and going to school. I'm not sure what would be inviting to people to come and read. Sounds sort of dull to me but writing is still a therapeutic experience for me. A part of me missed writing how I've been healing and progressing but my life has changed so much that it has become more about living than surviving.

The orginal purpose of my blog has changed. I thought about creating another blog but decided to keep this one and hope that the people who read it will forgive the transition from a grief survivor to an everyday normal kind of guy.

Kel

3 comments:

Shan said...

Think of what you'd be missing if you weren't able to move along in life...

And blogs don't always have to be about, for, or in consideration of the readers... have you *seen* some of the crap I've put out there? That crap is for me, haha.

Anonymous said...

Hi Kelly,

You were always a normal, everyday kind of guy going through an extraordinary period in your life and taking us along for the ride.

I think we've all learned alot about the human condition from your accounts and adventures these past two years.

Cousin Merle

Angel Memoirs said...

Hi, I just chanced upon your blog and I want to share with you that yr blog has the similarity as mine, a space to breath my thoughts in memory of my daughter who passed away suddenly from a high fever while doing her dissertation for her degree. I missed her trerribly, often testing my insanity. Don't worry about readers' view. It should be a space for your inner thoughts which nobody will really "feel" what you feel. Grief has got not limit. Take your time to get over.

Jean
Singapore